I’ve been reading I Am Brian Wilson, the autobiography of Beach Boys’ founder Brian Wilson. It’s a powerful and often heartbreaking account of a man who seemed to have it all—fame, fortune, and extraordinary musical talent—yet still faced deep personal struggles. His story is filled with pain: battles with mental illness, crushing feelings of inadequacy, manipulation by those who should have helped him, and years spent lost in drugs and alcohol trying to escape the torment inside his own mind.
Reading his story reminded me of a truth we often forget: success doesn’t shield you from suffering. In fact, for many, it adds new layers of isolation and confusion.
We tend to believe the myth that if we can just earn a little more, be a little more known, or achieve some long-desired goal, then our problems will vanish. But story after story—like Brian’s—proves otherwise. Trouble doesn’t care about your bank account or your resume. As Jesus said in John 16:33, “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
That verse is a powerful reminder. Trouble is part of life. Struggle is not a sign that you’re failing—it’s a part of the human experience.
Brian Wilson was searching for peace. He turned to substances, isolating himself in his house for years. He believed lies about his worth and was exploited by people who were supposed to care. Many of us, even if our stories look different, can relate: we’ve made poor choices while trying to numb pain or escape guilt. We’ve listened to the wrong voices. We’ve felt alone, ashamed, overwhelmed.
But here’s the hope: you are not alone—and you are not without help.
God knows what we’re going through. He offers peace that isn’t dependent on circumstance—“the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding” (Philippians 4:7). He offers guidance that, if we follow, can help us avoid many of the traps this world lays before us. God’s Word warns us clearly against drunkenness (Ephesians 5:18), pride, lust, greed, and other behaviors that destroy lives—not because He wants to spoil our fun, but because He knows where those roads lead.
Imagine if Brian had found Christ earlier in life. If instead of drugs, he found healing through prayer. If instead of people who used him, he found a community that loved him with Christlike compassion.
We can’t go back and rewrite the past—for him or for ourselves. But we can decide what to do next.
If you’re struggling, know this: God sees you. He cares. And He can lead you out of the darkness. It may not happen overnight, and you may still face storms, but you won’t be walking through them alone. And over time, you’ll find that His path brings something this world can’t offer—real peace, real joy, and real purpose.
Fame won’t save you. Money won’t satisfy. People will let you down. But God never will.
