A Grandfather’s Wisdom

If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the years, it’s that conflict is unavoidable. It’s part of life—from childhood arguments with siblings to disagreements with coworkers, friends, or a spouse. And just when you think you’ve figured it out, your kids grow up and bring new forms of conflict into your life. It doesn’t matter how laid back you are (and I tend to be pretty easygoing myself), conflict will still find its way to your doorstep.

Christianity is more than head knowledge—it’s heart change. It’s not just going to church, but being the Church. It’s letting the fire of God burn so brightly in your life that others can’t help but see Him.

In a world that often confuses love with fleeting emotion or conditional affection, the Bible offers a clear and enduring definition. Nowhere is this more beautifully captured than in 1 Corinthians 13, where the Apostle Paul lays out what real, godly love looks like—patient, kind, selfless, enduring.

One of the greatest influences on your walk with God is the company you keep. Proverbs 13:20 tells us, “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” God designed us for community, but not just any community—one built on love, truth, accountability, and shared faith

One of the most important lessons I can pass on to you is how to think about money. Not how to get rich quick. Not how to beat the system. But how to live wisely and faithfully when it comes to money—something most people struggle with their entire lives.

There’s something I want you to know deep in your heart: you were created on purpose, for a purpose. You’re not here by accident. Long before you were born, God had a plan for your life. That plan isn’t about fame, money, or chasing after what the world tells you is important. It’s about living a life that matters – a life that makes a difference.

One of the most important lessons I can pass on to you is how to think about money. Not how to get rich quick. Not how to beat the system. But how to live wisely and faithfully when it comes to money—something most people struggle with their entire lives.

As your grandfather, there’s something I want to pass on to you that is more important than money, fame, or even success in life. It’s the one thing that Jesus said matters most: love.

The most important thing in life.

It’s not money. It’s not fame. It’s not even health, although health is a blessing.
The most important thing in life is to love God, love others, and follow Jesus with all your heart.

You see, life isn’t just about what you can earn or accomplish. It’s about who you walk with, and who you become along the way.